We've been together for almost 5 years and now we just broke up. the break-up was mutual. i feel very weird about it. like relieved but sad at the same time.
lesson of the day, you have to constantly feed love cause it can die very slowly without you noticing and when you do, it's too late.
the akward situation now is that she's leaving to her home country in 2 weeks for like a month and first i feel like the timing sucks cause now her and her fam might think that's why i broke up with her (it seems like it's never the right time to break up with someone)
also i was already invited to her going away party and she asked me if i was still coming.
We've been together for almost 5 years and now we just broke up. the break-up was mutual. i feel very weird about it. like relieved but sad at the same time. lesson of the day, you have to constantly feed love cause it can die very slowly without you noticing and when you do, it's too late.
the akward situation now is that she's leaving to her home country in 2 weeks for like a month and first i feel like the timing sucks cause now her and her fam might think that's why i broke up with her (it seems like it's never the right time to break up with someone)
also i was already invited to her going away party and she asked me if i was still coming.
i feel so empty.
Dang man .. I dont know what to say. I just went through this, and had a long ass thread about it .. but we were only together for 11 months. I still loved her .. but 5 years ... I've been through a 5year break up too ..
i dont think there could be anything that I tell you that you probably dont already know. I'm sorry man .. they're telling me to keep my head up, so i guess I'll pass it on to you. Stay strong homie ...
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Real men never get attached to women. real men understand the liars and the type of deceit women pull so they know any given girl could be a bytch or a hoe.
well at least it was mutual and no hard feelings. those kinds are always kinda weird at first especially if u've been together for a long time. it'll pass though.
.. and if you dont mind ... I'm gonna put your quote about feeding love on my myspace .. that shyt is deep and true. Let me know if u mind. ..
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Originally Posted by winb
Real men never get attached to women. real men understand the liars and the type of deceit women pull so they know any given girl could be a bytch or a hoe.
damn, everybody breaking up this summer. this is probably the 5th me and my girl broke up thread. summertime is like a cancer to relationships. that empty feeling is gonna be there for a while, especially with you guys being together so long. only time can heal those empty places so just get back into doing things thatmade you happy when you weren't around her and you should be fine.
.. and if you dont mind ... I'm gonna put your quote about feeding love on my myspace .. that shyt is deep and true. Let me know if u mind. ..
of course i don't mind. i didn't even come up with it. just felt like it applied in my situation. i remember your thread by the way and i even posted in it. that was some harsh stuff you went through. hope things are better for you, keep your head up and thanks for the kind words.
damn, everybody breaking up this summer. this is probably the 5th me and my girl broke up thread. summertime is like a cancer to relationships. that empty feeling is gonna be there for a while, especially with you guys being together so long. only time can heal those empty places so just get back into doing things thatmade you happy when you weren't around her and you should be fine.
lol, it really is. i'm not sure if it's definitive. maybe we'll get back together in a couple of days, maybe not. i won't say i don't care either way but i feel like i'm just gonna go with the flow. if he asks and it feels right we'll get back together. if after some time i feel like a made a mistake i might swallow my pride and ask her if we can work things out. but at the same time, if she asks me and it doesn't feel right then it's really over.
thanks for the kind words everyone. i don't even feel that heartbroken, that's why i said it felt weird. the best way i could describe it is as if i lived in an appartment for 10 or 15 years and then just one day i out of the blue i have to move for whatever reason. I'll be ok. although i felt it coming it's still a shock.
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So me and my girl just broke up.
