Man, yall know im a negative type cat, but I just gotta let yall know why.
I've always seen marriage being somewhat similar to being a child again or being on probation.
As a child, you have a mother who tells you what to do, who nags you, who tells you to clean up after yourself, etc...you eventually grow up, move on, get married and similar to your mother, you have someone telling you what to do, someone telling you to clean/pick up after yourself, someone who tells you to wash your face. Now, maybe my outlook is skewed but i see this all the time.
Damn near everybody i work with is married. Their wives call them at work every single day about some of the most azzanine things. telling their wives they are "busy" spawns even more phonecalls. All these rules that have been set in place for em...(ie. no sports package, no xbox, etc...) is straight up hillario and depressing.
Some of these cats are newly married and they look as depressed as the dudes who are going on 10+ years of marriage.
Now, maybe these dudes just married the wrong women, or maybe marriage is just like that. It's the beginning of the end in a sense. I'm sure i'm seeing the negatives and there are a number of positives. Its just crazy how depressed these cats are.
it is the begining of the end. the begining of marriage.....the end of single life. the begining of a family.......and the end of it just being about u. thats what married life is. doesn't really have to be depressing. if ur depressed u either weren't ready for marriage. or married the wrong person.
dude, if my told my husband-to-be he`s not allowed an xbox or not to watch his sports ...he`d tell me to shove it Same as if he told me I can`t go get my nails done, or I can`t watch my fav. show - I`d tell him to piss off! lol
Marriage isn`t supposed to be about controlling eachother.
Some may have it like that unfortunately, but I wouldn`t accept being with a person who`s gonna control you/your ways. And it`s up to you, to find yourself a partner who WON`T do that.
However, getting married, you SHOULD be old/mature enough to pick up your dirt socks AND wash your self, as well as compromising with your woman, - to some extent, and finding a way that will make you both happy.
marriage only works if both parties now how to compromise
smh@not allowing to play xbox..talk about giving your manhood to your wife
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Originally Posted by MrRahaman
for these playoffs alone malcolm...
you've been a raps fan, pistons fan, cavs fan, nuggets fan, jazz fan, spur fan, celtics fan and a fukin laker fan..
just wait till she starts rationing out the pussy and every one tells you if you cheat, your wrong, without placing any blame at all on her
unless she cheats first................then u are wrong. if she rationing out puzzy............and u've talk to her about it.........and it still aint change.....u might not need to be married.
Some of these cats are newly married and they look as depressed as the dudes who are going on 10+ years of marriage.
Now, maybe these dudes just married the wrong women, or maybe marriage is just like that. It's the beginning of the end in a sense. I'm sure i'm seeing the negatives and there are a number of positives. Its just crazy how depressed these cats are.
My quick ramble of the day...
I was saying the same thing to my coworker the other day These cats be looking mad as **** when the phone rings and its Wifey calling They be having that "damn its that b!tch again" look on their faces
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unless she cheats first................then u are wrong. if she rationing out puzzy............and u've talk to her about it.........and it still aint change.....u might not need to be married.
Hey, if you agree to love, honor, and obey, than u can't play punani games with your hubby...to many females do that with no thought of the repercussions...yeah the male is wrong....but she is too....
Your point of view is shared by most married women....which is why most married men cheat
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Originally Posted by CelestialSiren
u might not need to be married.
Lol, if women had to pay alimony like men do when the relationship fukks up, most of yall wouldn't be in so much of a rush to the altar....
Man, yall know im a negative type cat, but I just gotta let yall know why.
I've always seen marriage being somewhat similar to being a child again or being on probation.
As a child, you have a mother who tells you what to do, who nags you, who tells you to clean up after yourself, etc...you eventually grow up, move on, get married and similar to your mother, you have someone telling you what to do, someone telling you to clean/pick up after yourself, someone who tells you to wash your face. Now, maybe my outlook is skewed but i see this all the time.
Damn near everybody i work with is married. Their wives call them at work every single day about some of the most azzanine things. telling their wives they are "busy" spawns even more phonecalls. All these rules that have been set in place for em...(ie. no sports package, no xbox, etc...) is straight up hillario and depressing.
Some of these cats are newly married and they look as depressed as the dudes who are going on 10+ years of marriage.
Now, maybe these dudes just married the wrong women, or maybe marriage is just like that. It's the beginning of the end in a sense. I'm sure i'm seeing the negatives and there are a number of positives. Its just crazy how depressed these cats are.
My quick ramble of the day...
oh.
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Hey, if you agree to love, honor, and obey, than u can't play punani games with your hubby...to many females do that with no thought of the repercussions...yeah the male is wrong....but she is too....
Your point of view is shared by most married women....which is why most married men cheat
Lol, if women had to pay alimony like men do when the relationship fukks up, most of yall wouldn't be in so much of a rush to the altar....
eh? not that i plan on ever getting married. but obey would never be in my vows. but n e way, men don't ever think about why they women rationing out puzzy, or why they aren't into sex as much, so more than like it aint just the woman. its on both ends. so what i say stand..............if u haven't tryed to fix whats wrong.............or talk to ur wife...............then its still aint right. if u have to go outside the marriage, then u probably need to keep it moving,
I got good then, my girl's only complaint is I blame everything on her or I have her explain something that's not a big deal in a great amount of detail to fully understand what she's talking about.
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Did this n!gga just upload a picture using megaupload?
Lol, if women had to pay alimony like men do when the relationship fukks up, most of yall wouldn't be in so much of a rush to the altar....
real talk!!!
on the real...what cats need 2 start doin is what my uncle did...
he had his lawyer draw up a pre-nup contract that states she doesn't get an alimony etc in case of divorce...
he told her that it was his "will", and it so incase anything happens that only she gets his possessions, and not any of his family members....she signed it without even lookin it over
then she divorce him like not even a year later...
she took him 2 court, to file 4 alimony...
when his lawyer presented the contract 2 the judge, and he read it aloud, yall shoulda seen the look on her face......o lawd
eh? not that i plan on ever getting married. but obey would never be in my vows. but n e way, men don't ever think about why they women rationing out puzzy, or why they aren't into sex as much, so more than like it aint just the woman. its on both ends. so what i say stand..............if u haven't tryed to fix whats wrong.............or talk to ur wife...............then its still aint right. if u have to go outside the marriage, then u probably need to keep it moving,
U messin up right there, and if you rationing out the puzzy then the problem was there before you started...females have a sense of entitlement about marriage when its really supposed to be a partnership...even though the wedding day is all about her...its cool, u see it your way i see it mine...Future husbands take note if you doin all u can and she rationing out the booty your damned if u do and damned if u dont...
I don't ever plan on getting married, but if I did, my habits would not change and I wouldn't expect hers to change. We are who we are and those rings don't change that. As an adult you shouldn't need to be told to wash your ass or pick up after yourself, you should already be in the habit of doing so.
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Another Marriage rant from yours truly
it is the begining of the end. the begining of marriage.....the end of single life. the begining of a family.......and the end of it just being about u. thats what married life is. doesn't really have to be depressing. if ur depressed u either weren't ready for marriage. or married the wrong person.
...its cool, u see it your way i see it mine...Future husbands take note if you doin all u can and she rationing out the booty your damned if u do and damned if u dont...
